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I just acquired an 8 year old gelding. He's had some training, and he's still green, but hasn't been handled much at all in the past year or so, until I started spending time with him. The problem is he's frustrated, bored, playful and has forgotten his manners. He constantly tries to nip me - not in a mean, angry way, but playfully snotty. What's the best way to teach him his manners? He likes to hold his head high, too. Is it because he doesn't trust me? He loves having my company and runs to greet me. I want to treat this guy right and have him for the rest of his life, if possible.
Thank you.




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It sounds like you are on the right track with desiring to build a life-long partnership with this 8-yr old gelding, but it is critical that you establish your leadership, in that, require that he be willing to yield in a respectful manner.  Remember that trust comes after the clear and consistent development of respect, and certainly that includes the development of good manners.  Please do not mistake this seemingly 'playful' nipping as a positive attribute!

 
You have hit upon a good direction in trying to be a detective regarding 'Why?' the horse is acting in this manner.  You may very well be on to something, in suggesting that he is frustrated and bored.  Horses need a job to do, even if it is a small one.  Politely putting their head down for haltering, walking from point A to Point B not pushing in on your space, are all just as important as picking up the correct lead or working a cow.  In all cases, you need to provide clear and consistent leadership.
 
I'd recommend starting with small things (that mean a lot to the horse), like asking him to politely halter, politely walk with you in a 'ground riding' position, politely trotting a circle on the lounge line, politely standing for saddling, etc..  Go back to your basics, remembering that everything you do on the ground should transfer up into the saddle.  Start with your 'Horseman's Protocol' EVERY time you engage with your gelding.  (i.e. Become present and breathe; Think (this includes having a clear lesson plan for what you will be asking of the horse); Focus & Picture; Allow (wait for the horse to make the right choice); and finally Reward (let him know even his slighest try with postivie attitude is a good thing).
 
Good luck at becoming the leader for your gelding.
 

"Be firm without being harsh; Be assertive not aggressive; No room for anger with horses; No room for being timid, so be bold in your mistakes, then you will know that you've made them; Horses, like people, need jobs to do and to feel appreciated for their efforts." ...some Alice Trindle quotes to ponder!

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